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Divorce Financial Analysis, Mediation, QDRO Preparation

Divorce Mediation
Mediation offers an amicable, efficient way to resolve divorce outside of court—but it only works when both parties understand the financial picture.
As a trained mediator under Massachusetts guidelines and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®), I don’t just facilitate conversations—I provide the financial analysis behind them. By clearly presenting income, assets, and long-term outcomes, I help both parties understand their options and make informed decisions, even in more complex financial situations.
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Divorce Financial Analysis
Divorce is one of the most significant financial decisions you will make. Working with a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®) from the beginning helps ensure you have the clarity and insight needed to make informed choices.
Whether you are considering divorce or already in the process, comprehensive financial analysis allows you to evaluate your options, understand the long-term impact of your decisions, and move toward a settlement that truly supports your needs and your future.

QDRO Preparation & Pension Valuation
As a Certified QDRO Specialist™ (CQS™), I specialize in preparing the legal documents required to divide retirement assets, including 401(k)s and state, federal, and military pensions.
In some cases, pensions are not divided but offset with other assets based on a professional valuation. Whether you need a QDRO, a DRO, or a pension valuation, I ensure the process is handled correctly from beginning to end.
Helping everyone stay safe
Mike HookTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. OVERWHELMED THEN SAVED! I can’t say enough about how helpful Diane has been! I came into this process overwhelmed, and she immediately brought clarity and calm with a system that worked so smoothly. She quickly connected with my situation and reassured me with calm order and process. She’s incredibly thorough and explains exactly what’s needed—no guessing, no confusion. Her communication is outstanding, with clear links, steps, and follow-through that makes everything feel organized and under control. Diane has a calming voice and demeanor too, which was exactly what I needed in my state of zero understanding of how it all works. Of course, when you’re totally crazed with both the emotion and the process her organization is calming and makes a massive difference. Divorce is most uncomfortable already, so having someone on your side, that can also confidently work with lawyers who respect her as well is a big relief. What really stands out is how dialed-in her process is. She’s done this for a long time and has it down to a level that makes a difficult situation feel manageable. The more prepared you are the better and easier it is for her to assess, process, and present. In my case she provided services I didn’t know about or knew I needed. I was a bit worried as I was not near her area thinking there needed to be an in person meeting. Instead, Diane made it so simple to have a zoom call. In person was never necessary. I’m truly grateful for her help and would recommend her without hesitation. I actually can’t even imagine someone doing as well or better than Diane. Thanks so much! GarethTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Diane is an extremely experienced and knowledgable financial mediator. She is able to deal effectively with very different personalities and help them come to compromise. I particularly appreciated Dian'e straight-talking yet kind approach. I thoroughly recommend Diane for your mediation needs. Gary McNabbTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I could not have found a more patient and qualified professional to handle the financial hurdles I faced during my divorce. Diane completed an Alimony and Pension Analysis for me. Both of these complex reports were crucial in my divorce and most importantly to my future financial stabilty in my post divorce life. Everyone’s divorce is unique, however even if you have a good lawyer, keep this in mind, your lawyer is not qualified to provide you with the objective analysis that Diane Pappas will bring to your divorce. There are other firms out there that do similar work, some your lawyer may recommend. Listen to me, advocate for yourself and insist on hiring Diane Pappas. Kareem GhobrialTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. We worked with Diane on our Mediation and could not provide a more thorough endorsement. She is patient and helps explain the ‘what’ and ‘why’ along the way to make sure everyone understands what’s going on. This was particularly helpful in what understandably was an already difficult and stressful situation. Diane is incredibly detail oriented, clearly communicates with meeting recaps and next steps, and is very timely in her deliverables. We sincerely appreciate Diane’s efforts to go ‘above & beyond’ when little wrinkles introduced additional complexity that we needed to work through. I particularly appreciate how thoughtful she is with her time - I didn’t feel nickeled & dimed along the way for answering one off emails or random questions. Her expertise and experience in these matters is a real asset - look no further if you need support. Thank you Diane! Fabian M. Degen, CFP®, CFA, EA, CDFA®, CQS™, AIF®, CESGA®Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I recently reached out to Diane Pappas at Solutions for Divorce for guidance on a Massachusetts divorce case. Diane was incredibly generous with her time and expertise, offering precise, insightful, and actionable advice. She's very knowledgeable, driven, and dedicated to supporting clients and colleagues alike. One of the things that stands out about Diane is her genuine interest in mentoring and collaborating with fellow Certified Divorce Financial Analysts (CDFAs). She actively fosters a spirit of learning and shared growth within our professional community. I am pleased to count Diane as both a professional colleague and a trusted friend, confident that anyone working with her will greatly benefit from her extensive experience and dedication. I highly recommend Diane and Solutions for Divorce to anyone seeking reliable, compassionate, and expert guidance through the divorce process. travis wagerTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I hired Diane, a CDFA to ensure a transparent divorce process, where both parties fully understood the financial implications. I needed to grasp the short and long-term consequences of each decision. For instance, retaining our family home for my daughters required refinancing at a significantly higher interest rate. Diane helped me understand the logistics and costs, ensuring the short-term benefit wouldn't jeopardize my long-term financial stability. Diane served as an invaluable emotional sounding board. Her practical approach, combined with consistent emotional support, was crucial throughout the process. She helped me maintain emotional equilibrium by grounding my decisions in their potential consequences, always delivering her guidance with tact and unwavering support. Hiring Diane was a financially sound decision. She meticulously verified all data, a crucial service during a stressful time when emotional distractions are common. Her thoroughness, including double-checking calculations ensured I had complete confidence in the financial information. For instance, her analysis of the home purchase provided a clear understanding of costs, liabilities, and long-term implications, empowering me during negotiations. Additionally, she expertly handled the complex division of company shares, preventing significant financial losses. For anyone hesitant about hiring a CDFA during a divorce, I can't emphasize enough how invaluable Diane's services were. She not only saved me money, but also ensured I understood the legal fairness of asset division. Her emotional support provided immeasurable peace of mind. I'd hire her again without hesitation; she's truly a five-star professional J DTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Exceptional attention to detail regarding a custom engagement for amending CS through a joint petition. Diane's calculations were accurate and amenable to both parties which led to an approved judgement from the court. Very professional and highly recommended! jennifer kellyTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I totally appreciated Diane's sensitive and balanced manner combined with her experienced, professional, and practical approach to the divorce mediation process. Diane's end to end process was well thought out and easy to understand. We accomplished it in a few meetings. Mark YerkesTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Diane is a talented mediator who was extremely helpful in navigating my divorce. During a difficult time, she was there every step of the way. I encourage others to contact her if they are facing a similar situation. Thanks Diane! Samantha CaramTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Diane was great to work with. She simplified and drove the process while also keeping us informed. I highly recommend her services.
In 2023, I was awarded the honor of being the recipient of the 2023 IDFA Lifetime Achievement Award for my outstanding work as a CDFA. “Using the financial planning discipline in helping clients during divorce. Representing the very best of CDFA® professionals.”
You Have Questions? I Have Answers!
- Can I afford to stay in the home or will we have to sell?
- Will I have enough income after the divorce to pay all my bills?
- Am I going to be okay in retirement?
- Maybe your spouse has always managed the money and you don’t want to be taken advantage of
- Maybe you are the breadwinner and are afraid that you will be left with nothing.
Whether you are in litigation, the collaborative process or working with me as your mediator, my services will provide you with the information necessary to craft a settlement that meets your financial needs, goals and interests and that of your family. You will have answers, long-term projections, clarity and peace-of-mind.
Knowledge is power. Be informed, be empowered, take control of your financial future.
Why Hire a CDFA?
Divorce can be scary and overwhelming. It is also one of the biggest financial transactions you will make in life. Having a financial expert on your side is paramount to achieving the best possible outcome for you and your family
People hire all sorts of experts and advisors to help them make important life decisions…divorce is no different.
Schedule your appointment now and learn why my clients say they couldn’t get through their divorce without me on their team.
Recommended Reading & Blogs

Alimony Buyout in Massachusetts: Pros. Cons & Real Case Examples
The short answer? It depends — on whether you’re the payor or the recipient, how long alimony would be paid for, and even your age.
Before we dive into the pros and cons, let’s first define what an alimony buyout is, why it might be suggested, and when it makes sense — or doesn’t.

Why I Became a CDFA®
Recently, a woman called me feeling lost and powerless. She and her husband were in mediation, trying to work through the terms of their divorce. Her husband works in the financial world, so he had a clear grasp of the numbers, the options, and the process. She, on the other hand, was not well equipped to even participate in the conversations. She was unsure if what was being proposed was actually fair—or if she was being taken advantage of.

Why You Need a CDFA® During Divorce
Divorce is more than a legal process—it’s a major financial transition. Decisions made during divorce can impact your financial well-being for years, even decades, after the papers are signed. Yet many people go into divorce negotiations without a clear understanding of their financial options, risks, or rights.
That’s where a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®) becomes a game-changer.
A CDFA brings financial clarity, strategic thinking, and long-term perspective to the divorce process. Whether you’re the financially “in the dark” spouse or the one trying to protect a lifetime of earnings, working with a CDFA empowers you to make smart, informed decisions—and avoid costly mistakes you may not even realize you’re making.
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The Divorce Course is for women who are contemplating or going through a divorce. By empowering you with specific knowledge, the Divorce Course will save you money and emotional stress.